We are all responsible for ‘something.’ When you are in a courtship, one of the responsibilities both you and your partner have is to stay (sexually) pure until the wedding day. It is important that you focus on God, and that you try to do that together. It is written in Proverbs 27:17 (NIV): "As [...]
Once upon a time, there was a lady called Amber and a man called James. Amber met James six months ago and she fell head over heels in love with him. I really mean head over heels, it was the love at first sight kind of love. Driving the latest car, big house, jewelry everywhere: he was it! [...]
Appreciating your spouse is one of the secrets to maintaining a long-lasting marriage. Think about it. Doesn't it give you a good feeling when your husband appreciates you? You feel respected, honoured and loved. Well, the same goes for him of course. But before you can appreciate your spouse, you should first learn how to appreciate [...]
Tall, black and handsome. Yes God, that’s how I want him. Charming and loving, forgiving and caring, sweet like candy, cute like a puppy, brave like a lion, wise like, perhaps, King Solomon? God I want and need him to be my first love! I don’t want to search for anyone else after him. I [...]
Everybody’s journey in life is different, and no two ways are the same. This rule also applies to finding love and the journey towards marriage. I like to use the word 'journey' whenever I reference love or marriage, because I see it as a road you have to follow which will eventually lead you to [...]
The word submission has been given quite a negative taste to it. This is probably due to the fact that many misinterpret the man-made submission and God-intended submission. God does not want women to be servants in our own home. Yet this is what many women think of when they hear the word "submission". This [...]
As a wife, you should know your purpose long before marriage. Before I got married, my husband and I had marriage counselling. This is something some couples fail to attend or participate in because they fail to see the importance of marriage counselling. Marriage counselling helps both the man and woman understand Scripture and marriage. [...]
As a married woman, I try to think positively about almost everything. Positive energy attracts good things most of the time. The same goes for your way of thinking, behaving, speaking and surely your actions. Thinking about marriage gets a lot of people excited about how amazing it will be. We make some sort of [...]
Apologising and actually meaning it, is no easy task. We face situations where have to apologize to a friend, a family member or a stranger on a daily basis. Saying a simple “sorry” to someone you randomly bumped in to is easy. But what about when you find yourself having to forgive your other half? [...]
“One day I will marry my prince. We will have a big and beautiful wedding. My sister will be the maid of honor, and my besties will be the bridesmaids. I want to arrive at my wedding with the most expensive and biggest car. My wedding dress needs to be unique and beautiful. My make-up [...]
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