In current days, it is deemed normal to date as much as you can to find the right person to settle down with. But is that not the reason many get stuck with a broken heart and are singing the "had I known" song? You know, the song that you sing when you wish you [...]
Why It’s Important to Exercise Patience During Your Courtship
Can We Design The Perfect Man?
Courtship Is All About Getting to Know Your Partner, but Don’t Forget About God!
As a Christian, your relationship should always be Christ-centred. This essentially means that you should put God before your partner. Courting is not about pleasing your partner but it’s about pleasing God in unity. The end goal is to marry someone who has the same purpose in life. Many times you see people placing their [...]
Yes You Love Him, but What If God Says No?
When two individuals are courting, it means that they are preparing themselves to eventually get married to one another, right? It's not all too unusual that their focus is then shifted towards planning the wedding and preparing for marriage. However, correct me if I’m wrong, courting someone does not necessarily mean that the person you [...]
Dating Is Easy But Courtship Is Better
Here’s me being honest: I don’t like courtship. Better said: I used to not like it. Before I start pouring the tea on that, here a few wise words: ignorance can keep you from your blessing! For Proverbs 3:13-15 (NIRV) says: “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom. Blessed is the one who gains understanding. [...]
Realising the Significance of Forgiving Each Other in Courtship
Forgiveness can be one of the hardest things to do as a young female Christian, especially in courtship, relationships and other aspects in life! In Ephesians 4:31-32 (NKJV) it says "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, even [...]
Managing Expectations in Your Courtship
Building the Foundation That Allows Your Love to Last
Follow the long trail of rose petals, hear the heart melting laughter, feel the warm embrace, and inhale the lingering smell of scented candles and perfume: ah, it is the perfect picture of love, isn’t it? Close your eyes and imagine this beautiful imagery.. Unfortunately though, approaching love from this angle is not realistic, it [...]
Courtship Is a Partnership Too
For a courtship to work, you need to understand that you are about to enter into a partnership. In this partnership, the both of you will have differences and similarities to work on. Be aware that some of your characteristics may overpower the other. As an individual, you can like a particular thing that the [...]